New old posts

http://www.mrpartandtravels.wordpress.com is already active and at the moment I’m uploading old posts there. These posts was written in Polish and now I’m uploading it in English, so it’s the ones that you probably haven’t read before 😉
Have a nice day and I hope to see you on my new blog: Mr. P – art and travels.

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The end is near

When I’ve started blogging I was in personal crisis situation and just wanted to throw out some thoughts from my head, to feel some kind of relief. I have to say it really helped me to go thru difficult situation and even brough me more positive things than I’ve expected. As you can imagine, on the beginning I had no plan, no idea about blogging. It wasn’t even blogging, it was just writing. I haven’t even planning to write in english, however since I’ve published first post in english I’ve found readers without community pool and other related things. It’s nice when you see someone, not only read your posts but also like it and I mean really like it, not only press like button. I still don’t care about numbers, maybe because it never was my goal to have penty of likes or followers but it’s nice when you can share your experience with others. The only problem is time or rather lack of time to read as much as I would like to read. Anyway I’m posting and reading time to time, I think I can call myself time to time blogger 😉 and it’s fine for me.
Now when I’m living in UK, I’m starting many things from the beginning and I’ve decided to end this blog soon and start with the new one which will be titled Mr. P. art and travels (or mrpartandtravels – depending what will be availiable).
When it will be ready I will publish last post here with all informations about it.

By the way, since I’m in UK last two months a lot of people are impresed about my english but does my english is so good? I don’t think so. Maybe it’s not so bad however the problem is, that a lot of people living in this country doesn’t speak english well even after spending here many years. How this is possible?
My suspections coming to this conclusion – Many of people (I don’t think is most) who comes to UK stick with their people at home, at work, looking for each other in the neighborhood and so on. This simply provide to lack of practice the language of the country you’re coming to. Even writing a simple posts gives you more lingual skills than spending years in the country without practicing your lingual skills.
This is why I think learning any language by writing posts it’s not only possible, it even brings quite good results. There might be some difficulties with spoken language but it comes quick to speak and understand what the others are speak to you.

Have a great sunday 🙂

One quick thought

You can easly find a lot of comparetion videos on youtube between millenials and gen z. There are also some predictions and speculations about generation alpha.
All these things bring me to this question: If technology addicts people so easy, like there’s a lot using of smartphones almost all the time when they’re awake and technology is not developed so much now as it’s going to be within few next decades. Dreams from the past slowly becoming reality of the future or even goes bit forward than expected in some cases. Of course it’s not the same as people used to think about technology and maybe it’s happens later than people thoughted it will but look and compare past to the present and to technology of tomorrow. If someone thinks autonomic cars will be not successful, because people like to drive by themselves, might be in big mistake. It will become just to easy as using of smartphones today at almost on every second of our life. Those who will born with autonomic cars technology and will not know cars that we know today, will probably not miss for this relicts of the past (in general).

What you think about that?

Welcome to Wonderland

Many people are looking on United Kingdom as at the place of great opportunities.
Does Great Britain is realy so great as people want to see it?
I’ve arrived here just two weeks ago, so it’s hard to say how the life in UK will look for me. What can I say at this moment is after beeing team leader manager for car wash company and had three car wash stations under my commandment I got the job here also on the car wash but as usual worker who will wash the cars.
In this country, your previous experience as long it’s not a high position in global company it’s doesn’t matter. You have to start from the bottom and prove your value. However it’s nothing unusual at work, that you have to prove your value if you want get promotion, so I’m ok with that.
Why I quit from good position in my home country?
To answear for this question I have to go back to the time when my life falled into pieces I was self employed but the occurring situation couses me mental and emotional crisis so much, that even could take care about my self and to say to managing the business.
I closed it without looking on any losts and started to work in car wash just to run from my thoughts.
Now, when I’m divorced and feel a lot better I was looking to change surrounding enviroment, to start everything all over and here I’m.
It’s my way to move on without places that will bring memories, so in this case UK look like Wonderland and make easy to open new chapter of my life.

Have a nice day.

I’ve become superman!

Can you find better example of being humble than this title?
Of course you can, but, who cares!?
Ok, I’m going straight to the point. While ago I’ve said, that maybe I’ll write a little bit more about me one day. This day is today.
After some dramatic and traumatic events that took place in my life (which began about a year and a half ago and did not leave my thoughts for several months back from now), I finally found peace.
Someone may ask – What I mean by dramatic and traumatic events?
After few months of marriage, not even half year my wife (now ex-wife) asked me can she go on disco with her friends (all of them have husbands as well and it had to be something like “girls evening”) so I said “yes, no problem”.
She met there a man (which is nothing really special at this kind of places) and now comes the best part.
Are you ready?
She felt in love at first sight!
How sweet… more you can read here https://wp.me/p8FnFG-Au
Since next day she was behaving different, so it wasn’t hard to see she started to smile to phone while reading messages and texting all day long.
I was trying to find out what’sgoing on, she was saying, that’s nothing going on.
Until one day she told me to move out from house, sheis in love and she doesn’t loves me anymore and so on. It was like thunder from te sky.
As nothing comes too easy and I used to love her I was trying to save this marriage, trying to talk with her and keep in touch.
She was telling me, that she is possessed by the devil and she was acting like this I’ve called for my good friend who is the priest and he came as soon as possible from the other city which is few hours drive in one way.
He said, that with experience, which he have it’s not possession.
I was also consulting with psychiatrist, psychologist, all for nothing.
She tried to commit suicide several times. We already haven’t living together at that time, but as a husband I was informed about those situations.
This is what I’m calling dramatic and traumatic and it really goes deep into mind.
I used to self employed but this situation has surpassed me, totally.
I couldn’t take care about myself and what to say about managing the business.
I couldn’t sleep, I couldn’t eat, I couldn’t think rational. Unmanaged business generated losses. Before all this situation I bought more goods than usual because the time of Christmas shopping was approaching. But ultimately, I did not sell anything, I had no head for this. All this situation and led me to end the business.
When finally, I recovered from the worst shock, my mind was still full of bad things, bad memories etc. Nobody cares about your situation and you have to pay for everything, food costs, house costs, everything costs and only air seem to be free of charge.
I needed to find a job and needed to cut myself off from problems.
In other words, I needed a job where there is no time to think. This is how I’ve started to work on car wash.
Car wash is trully this kind of work where even an complete idiot can find a job.
And seriously there are some kinds of work where you can find low intelectual developed people, just idiots. Those idiots make opinion to all who work in this kind of jobs.
Anyway, there is few month left and I’ll pay off rest of my debt and because I’m feeling good now it will be good time to get back on track and rebuilt my business.
How this situation changed me? Well, I simply care less about anything.
So many things doesn’t matter, so many things are not going to shock me now. I mean, you can still surprised me with something, but it will be nothing really special.
For example the friend of mine texted me few days ago, that she lied to me on some issues by last six years. I’ve only asked – does everything is ok?
I’ve ask this question because I’ve learned, that people confess things like this when something happened. She had mental brakedown while ago.
Yeah? Me too. Now it’s fine.
I signed up on some dating sites but didn’t date with anyone. I guess people over thirties are not in a circle of interests or I’m just too ugly to date.
I have heard many times what kind of man girls and women want to have and it seem that I’m perfect. Well, not really. I’m perfect friend, not even considered as partner.
Yes, nice guys ends in friend zone before anything even started. Girls and women like to complain on their men but when it’s really good, they simply get bored and start to looking for attractions.
I used to consider girls and women almost like an angels or nearly I couldn’t be more wrong, they are just the same as men. Which mean, that maybe somwhere on this planet is a girl a lot like which will appreciate to spendtime together nice, to talk about the problems instead of hiding it or aruing, who would like to travel together to interesting places and being honest about what she like and what she don’t. Is it that hard?
I would like to find a girl who will appreciate that I’m honest, that I’m telling what I like and what I don’t like. I would like to find a girl who will appreciate that I’m not a jerk and have no problem to cook or to wash the dishes or clean the floor etc. I’ts really not big deal. I would like to find the girl who will enjoy to have a massage and have no problem to massage me too, because it’s really nice and relaxing and you don’t need to have special knowledge about it, you don’t need to use strenght for it, because nice, gentle, delicate massage from your beloved one is the best relaxing thing.
Of course you can go to a professional massage studio but it will never be the same it will never give you this atmosphere what you have while with your beloved one.
Does anyone know what I mean?
Who cares?
Sometimes I think, that people freaked out. What values count today?
I have no idea, money? number of followers on social media? number of likes under your selfie? subscribers on youtube?
It is nice when you see, that other people like your ideas, but it’s not a value by itself.
Doing something for likes or attention is stupid.
I used to be on some page about youtube to share my videos, but what I saw there wasn’t even stupid, it was idiotic. People there are asking other people to subscribe their youtube channels it’s called sub4sub. I’ve wrote a post there: watch and let me know what do you think about my video and I’ll do the same in return.
What kind of feedback I got?
“I’ve subscribe to your channel, now you subscribe mine”
So I had no other choice than write the answer.
“Probably you have the problem to read with understanding, so let me make this clear – get the fuck your subscribtion and get the fuck out from my channel if you are such an idiot”
Yeah, this shows how nice guy I’m.
When you start to work with idiots, sooner or later you will see, that if you want them to understand what you want from them, you have to use their lingual level.
And I don’t give a shit about this. I’ll not try to educate them.

Ok, now, why I wrote I’m superman?
Because I care about many things much less than ever before, because I’m free, because I let myself to do many things, that I haven’t doing it before, because I don’t care about other people opinion, because after disaster many things became so small.
Now it’s like be yourself, free yourself, do it your way. You don’t have to follow the rules when you see they are not work for you. Use your life, don’t waste it.
I don’t drink, I don’t smoke, I’m not using the drugs and I’m using my life as much as possible without hurting myself and anyone around.
I’m doing what I like when and how it’s possible, I’m not forcing myself or anyone else to do anything. You have your mind, so use it. This is what it is for.
Think and enjoy from smallest things in your life.

Have a nice day 🙂

Original classic

Original recipe is kind of guarantee for success. Original, classical, traditional, all those words mean something like “if you will follow instructions, you will recive the same thing what creator of this thing” . If we are talking about food, then original recipe is the way to recreate the flavour. Such a great achievement, I’m impressed. If it will be about any other thing, original recipe will make things works. This may lead to providing standards, which is comfortable. People from nature are lazy, so they like to follow for something what already is made by someone else. Laziness makes, that people don’t like to leave their comfort zone, so sometimes people prefer to arguing to keep something without any changes than try new things.
For example, let’s say, that I will make “tiramisu” with cacao insteead of coffee, for many people it will be like a blasphemy. If I will ask, why I can’t replace it, the answer is, because you can’t, because in original recipe is coffee, becuase it’s traditional.
They don’t even try to accept it, that I may prefer cacao 🙂
Original recipe is to keep uniqueness, but when everyone is using the same recipe does it still unique?
It’s very smart to keep original recipes for things, that works, but it cannot stop us from creativity, from trying new things.
For original lovers: don’t be affraid to try different ways sometimes, it doesn’t mean to leave this what you like so much.
For those, who think original means boring: it’s good to find out why it’s respected by other people, maybe you will appreciate it too.
In both cases it’s going out from comfort zone, which is like entering on unknown teritory and on beginning it may provide anxiety, adrenaline and excitement, but after all, it’s brings new experience and helps to discover yourself from different perspective.

Have a nice day and take the challange of leaving your comfort zone. 🙂

New Year’s list…

New Year seem to be a great moment to make a list of things to do, or things to avoid, to set challanges to ourselves etc. My suggestion is: find your last “New Year’s list” and check how many point from that list you’ve maid. If you completed all, it’s probably great and you can be proud of you, but if you did not, then it’s may be a good idea to find out why you didn’t completed your own list. Sometimes it’s good to write your goals with smaller points and do it day by day. Even when you put this list on the wall, after few days/weeks it will become a part of wall and nothing more, so it’s good to refresh it often.
Find out what is really important for you and what was important for you a year ago and two years ago and so on, to find out what is really important and how our priorities are changing.

Happy New Year, but not only this one day after New Year’s Eve, but the whole year 2018.

Happy New Year
Szczęśliwego Nowego Roku
Gelukkig nieuwjaar
Felice anno nuovo
नया साल मुबारक हो
Godt nytt år
Frohes neues Jahr
สวัสดีปีใหม่
Bonne année
С новым годом